Lag took too much from me. I can't play on a server I don't trust. Sure, they were competent on coming up with excuses but I don't have time for excuses. I want a time sinks that gives, not takes. I am going to have to move on. Fun while it lasted (about 20 hours of play in one week). The server replied:
Which kind of Excuses did we come up with?
We did have some problems with Sponge and Graves from around sunday night until yesterday morning.
If you want to read more about this issue it is here on github https://github.com/SpongePowered/SpongeForge/issues/1097
I am sorry that you feel like you have to go, but I can assure you that we are always working on fixing the problems there are on the server.
If you have any further questions/notes please feel free to contact me on our website so we can get it resolved :)
-Kasper Franz